That's one way growth happens - you either let it pull you down, or you use it as a launchpad to GTFO to better things. Tying this back to T2's dad hitting deer, what you do with negative experiences says a lot about you as a person or the severity of the event. I also firmly believe unusually negative events are either a boat anchor or a springboard depending how you process it. How anyone can be stupid enough to think a universal class of anything not inherently bad is universally bad is beyond me. A simple concept I wish racists, cop-haters, phobes etc. That said, I'm not stupid or naive enough to believe the actions of those few equal the actions of many or all. Had I been smart I'd have GTFO before that. The first several times, things dropped quick, it took them a while to concoct something that stuck. It came after a couple years of constant harassment over something I had absolutely nothing to do with - someone in my family divorcing their boss. Like, I got railroaded in a life-altering way, which he & his cohorts thought was absolutely hilarious. So his buddies started messing with me and my small family.
He felt like this made him look like a clown when word got around (small town).
I can tell you, as a late teen, I got railroaded hard by a LEO "having fun with me" because my grandma divorced his boss the first time he beat on her, not long after they married. I have no idea what they said, context is lacking but also realize you can't just repeat here w/o risk.
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